2.
Boundaries
A good relationship means
that both the partners know
about the boundaries of it.
You may not want your partner
to bother you about your work.
Your partner should know when
you feel bad. Similarly you
should know about the boundaries
you are not supposed to cross.
Draw a list of dos and do
not cross them.
3.
Habits And Values
Partners in a healthy relationship
have many common habits and
values. Life goals, values,
beliefs and, emotional drivers
are common in a healthy relationship.
If you are going to argue
about every decision, because
your goals and values are
different, the relationship
will suffer. Similarly, if
what drives your emotions
leaves your partner unaffected,
you both will never satisfy
each other emotionally. That
will again make it an unhealthy
relationship. If a sight of
a beautiful waterfall moves
you and your partner tells
you that there is nothing
great about that and that
you should move on, you would
surely hate yourself or your
partner.
4.
Kids
Only
kidding....this can make or
break a relationship so think
carefully before going down
this route!
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